I am curious to know everyone’s opinion. When you have problems with work, or with school, there’s always someone/something there that makes it bearable or helps you calm down. What do you do when that person or things is the problem or is gone?
Now I am not going into specifics, but some things in my life have drastically changed. The one thing that I used to count on is gone, and I am left with these things by myself. I do not know when it will be replaced, or if it will comeback, but as of right now I am lost.
It seems that when things happen, they happen all at once. Even though it may be spread out over several months or perhaps throughout a year, it seems to just clump together and build on one another. I don’t know if I need something to occupy my mind, but what I’ve been used to has changed and my thoughts are racing away with stability.
If you’ve had this problem, or even better, have a solution, please feel free to let me know. I hope your world stays neatly intact or atleast your crutch is there to help you deal with things.
February 7th, 2006 at 10:35 pm
If I have the slightest notion as to the circumstances and variables in which you speak, I understand. There isn’t an easy approach to replacing the crutch in which you frequently mentioned, however, I can say that friends help alot.
I lean to the ears of my friends to listen to my troubles and if nothing else, venting seems to be a temporary remedy, yet I lack a solution as well. Things in my life seem to tumble as well, and when the stick falls, the mountain come pouring behind.
All I can say is, whatever it may be you’re going through, you know you have specific individuals who are nearby, and ones who will listen. I may be weak in the knees, but I do have some metal crutches of my own
February 7th, 2006 at 11:48 pm
I usually just drink heavily and pass out.
kidding.
Nick, I know how you feel man, crap does seem to pile up on you suddenly… and it sucks. I know what crutch(es) you speak of and you have to understand you can always turn to your friends. We too will listen to you bitch/vent about things that upset you. We won’t ignore or judge you man. You know how to get in touch.
And we’ll definitely fix your car soon… I’ve been slacking majorly… mine is screwed now too.
February 8th, 2006 at 2:46 pm
Someone beat up my car!
February 9th, 2006 at 11:44 am
Nick I got your back dude. Plus your forgetting about one special person in your life that has wanted you to acknowlege him and be with him for the longest time, and that person is Mr Stierwalt. He loves you nick.
February 9th, 2006 at 2:13 pm
Haha, I think the last person out of us to talk to him was Justin, and they were reflecting on the wonderful times they spent together. Oh and kool-aid guy said hi to you Dustin,
February 20th, 2006 at 9:19 pm
crutch\’kr[]ch\noun (MEcrucche fr OE crycc; akin to SHG krucha crutch)
1. a. a support typically fitting under the armpit for use by the DISABLED in walking
b. Prop, stay……If you’re a criple get a wheel chair
2. a forked leg rest constituting the pommel of a sidesaddle….learn how to ride the saddle like a man.
3. the crotch of a human being or an animal….is that what you’re really talking about?
4. a forked support….to be able to stand on your own two feet is more attractive and desirable than needing support.
February 21st, 2006 at 4:07 pm
I am talking about a person/something you rely(lean) on when you have a problem. Not necessarily saying I’m disabled or unable to perform without it, it just aids in whatever I’m trying to do. Something used to make your life easier or more comfortable.
February 21st, 2006 at 4:10 pm
Like a tripod….